The five needs of Interpersonal Love
...The first need of every person is to spend time - quality time...
... I need to know how you feel about me...
...From where does trust originate...
.. Solitary individuals do not need trust...
... People who choose to trust tend to be happier, better liked by others, and more ethical than less trusting people....
I'm not by nature a possessive individual, so the ground rules were laid early on that we were free to hang out with whomever we wanted to. However, I made it clear, though free to make our own choices; we would live with the consequences of our choices. Initially, this was not an issue, as we spent every waking moment with each other. However six months into our relationship, my career landed me in another city, and we found ourselves in a long distance relationship. My drive to climb the corporate ladder occupied most of my time, so a social life was never a consideration for me (which worked well for her given her possessive and jealous nature).
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